Akhir Rishta jamta kyu nahi hai?

Assalamu alaikum, aksar hume dekhne me Aata Hai ke ladke wale ladki ko dekhne aate Hai aor chale jate Hai. Aor koi jawab nhi dete. Ya aapke aor hamare saath bhi hota Hai.  Lekin humne Kabhi ye socha nhi ke Akhir mana q karte Hai ladke wale.

Toh chaliye is baat par hum kuch gaor kare.

1. Ladki ke rishta ke lye jab uski photo tanveer nikal jati Hai Studio me us waqt photographer photoshop software ki madad se us ladki ko itna khubsurat aor Gora kya jata hai jisse wo bahot zyada khubsurat dikhai deti. Aor kbhi kbhi ye bhi dekhne me Aata Hai black ko puri Tarah white kar dya jata hai.
              Jab ladke wale ladki ko dekhne Ghar aate Hai us waqt unke dimaag me ek tasveer pehle se chapi hoti Hai jo unho ne photo me dekhi thi. Lekin jab ladki dekhne ke baad unhe us jaisi nhi dikhaye deti Hai to ladke wale mana kar dete Hai.
Is se hota ye Hai ladki ki natural beauty to chup jati hai aor  photo shop ke chakar me dono ka nuksaaan hota Hai. Ladki walo ko nashte pani ka aor ladke walo ko time &  traveling ka.

Suggestion: jitna ho sake natural photo hi nikalna chahiye.

2. Ladkiyo ki shadi me deri waqai ek masla Hai lekin is masla ka Walid Sahab jahez (dowry)  nhi Hai. Na iske wahid zimmadar ladke wale Hai.
Maine dekha Hai ke aise aadhe se zyada maamlaat me ladki wale zimmadar hote Hai. Hota ye Hai ke Ghar ke Har fard ka dulhe ke lye ek meyar Bana hota Hai. Dad chahta Hai ek acha dindaar ladka mile. Maa chahti Hai ladka paise wala mile jaha meri beti raat kare. Ladki chahti Hai handsome ho. Aisi aisi Requirment hoti Hai ladka educated ho, caring ho, smart ho, deendar ho, well settled ho, choti family ho, namazi ho etc. Ye Sare meyarat rakh kar rishta dhundte Hai, rishte aate Hai aor kisi na kisi wajha se reject ho jate Hai.

Ladki ki Umar bhi Rishto ko reject karne k saath saath badhti jati hai aor naubat yaha tak aajati Hai k ladki baaji se aunty ban jati hai. Aor phir..... 

3. Samaji tor par dekhne ko ye milta Hai ladke ka thopda dekhne layeq bhi nhi hota aor ladke ko pari jaisi Dulhan hi chahiye hota Hai.

Ye samajhne ki zarurat hai ke kabhi kisiko muqammal Jahan nhi milta. Duniya me rehkar duniya walo se hi rishta karna hoga na?  Hamare bacho ki shadi ke lye aasman ki pari ya farishta toh nhi utrega.

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